Important Tips That Improve a Handjob Vastly (The Not So Obvious Ones)

Then handjob is trending.

Not on social media necessarily (I mean, come one). Rather, in the spectrum that is our bold sexuality, handjobs are carving their way out of the doldrums of sex acts and evolving into a desired play.

Historically, the handjobs place was determined by its alignment with a substandard sex act. Girls (or guys, depending on sexuality), were noted as giving handjobs because they weren’t ready, or were unwilling, to “go further.” The handjob was relegated as an inferior sex act.

But the times are changing.

Handjobs in popular culture have sparked the sexual landscape revolution. Handjobs are notably safer than other sex acts. And they offer more control, which often leads to heightened states of orgasm.

Even dating sites are getting in on the handjob action. There are sites dedicated to just handjobs. Its wild.

But while handjobs are trending, so are ways to improve the handjob. And there’s a few “not so obvious ways.”

Talk More

You don’t hear much about “talking” when people discuss handjob tips or technique. But it should be the very top tip.

When giving or receiving a handjob, your mouth is free. Kissing is a great use of the mouth during handjobs, but so is erotic talk. Such erotic talk can revolutionize your sex life because its therapeutic. You’ll find yourself learning deeper details about your partner’s kinks, fetishes, and desires. When a man is in deep pleasure, he’ll spill his deepest fantasies if you get him talking.

Give a Handy While Watching or Playing Porn

Much along the same tip as talking, you can play or watch porn. I think watching porn is an obvious concept. While you both watch porn, she strokes your dick. You can discuss the porn to add in more pronounced eroticism.

But what does “playing porn” imply?

I’m talking porn games. There’s a growing interest in couples giving handjobs while playing porn games. And its just as hot as it sounds.

Graze, Massage Balls

This is a more obvious tip, but including the balls in the handjob certainly ramps up the pleasure. Some guys like a more aggressive grip on the balls, others don’t. You can figure that out. If you’re a guy, simply speak up and tell her what you enjoy. A light finger graze on the balls or deep, penetrating massage, or a more BDSM play? You have to express what it is that you like, or as the girl, you gotta ask or follow the reactions.

In either case, ball play is an excellent handjob add-on. It can boost handjob stimulation by leaps and bounds.

Alternate High and Low Grips

Your handjob grip matters. As a rule, the low handjob grip sustains longer, but that’s because it is less pleasurable. The high grip pleasure more, but can make the guy cum way faster. Alternating helps infuse the handjob with the best of both worlds.

Handjob lovers, don’t walk around with your heads in shame. The handjob is freaking awesome. And its only going to get better now that you have a few extra tips in your palm.